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hello everyone
so , i tried everyway i could find in the internet about making a private server as me and my friend are trying to play lord of the test together ( and no , we are far away from each other as he doesnt live in the country i live it ) so i thought if someone can giveme the most simplified way of making a server ( i am not a genius so please dont say the complicated words ) or even better , if someone can make me one
thanks in advance .

These topics contain enough information about setting up a server:

• Illustrated Server Creation Guide
• [Guide] Create and maintain a server on Windows
• Hosting a server

kaeza wrote:These topics contain enough information about setting up a server:

• Illustrated Server Creation Guide
• [Guide] Create and maintain a server on Windows
• Hosting a server

well , thats what i said in the topic that i wrote : i tried them all , so there are 2 possibilities :
1 = there was an error or something
2 = i am dumb as hell
its probably the 2nd one :^