Goodbye !

[jp]

Nothing worth to say here.

[paramat]

There has been some friction between us, partly my fault for taking what you write too seriously, however i can seperate that from your dev work and say i will miss your contributions, you have done a lot of good work for Minetest engine and Game and have been helpful with organisation, feedback and testing. Best wishes.

[ExeterDad]

For what its worth... you made some damn good mods. We (my family) use them all the time. I only follow what happens to the engine and the game on github, and I see you gave plenty. Take care in whatever direction you go from here.
:)

[benrob0329]

Goodbye, JP, I hope I did not come across as attackative or boycotting.

I enjoyed several of your mods and we all appreciate the work you did for MT as a whole.

Best of blessings for the future.

[maikerumine]

Damn...

that really sucks, man.

I understand though and wish you well. Thank you for all you have contributed.

[sofar]

Kilbith has graciously put xdecor under minetest-mods, and I will take care of it with the intent of keeping it entirely in the spirit and design that it is right now. Please come help me take care of Xdecor.

[mgl]

So many people have to leave Minetest to be happy. For sure it's a healthy project... Go on.

Good luck jp.

[TenPlus1]

Good luck with your next endevour... I enjoy using your mods dude...

[Minetestforfun]

Minetest has a lack of many things, now Minetest will also have a lack of beautiful codes and textures from Jps work...

Thank you sofar for the following of this mod

[azekill_DIABLO]

Goodbye JP :(
i'm sad to see that you leave us....

but if u start a new MT engine, tell me :)

[Naj]

Too bad you leave. Discussions we had were quite nice. Good luck to you in whatever you're going to do now.

[cHyper]

Goodbye! Best wishes for the future, whatever you have done.

[Fixerol]

Thanks for your nice mods

[prof-turbo]

Funny thing is that I was questionning myself about doing same last 3 weeks.
Have a nice trip in the other world !

EDIT : about those IRC logs : I saw some similar talks while you were there too :p

[Krock]

There many different people working on Minetest and its mods. People who hate others can be found everywhere, thus, this IRC log does not really surprise me. Usually it's caused because people take each other too serious or misunderstand the messages.
But leaving the community because there's an asshole (sorry for the speech)? Seriously?
It's sad to see another programmer who leaves Minetest and the community - I hope you will return someday!

[Milan*]

This is really sad to read.
I enjoyed how active you was and how much you did care about the latest version of your xdecor mod on every server.

and it turns out that it's not the reliable, high-standard foundation I was hoping to be

If you find something which have the from you searched quality, please tell me, its interesting for me.
Otherwise, the developement and evolution of minetest end its community will not stop, so maybe you can come back someday...will be very happy to have you back.

best regards and thank you for your awesome work!

[Don]

Sorry if I was the reason for you leaving. I was simply stating my opinion. The #minetest-project channel is fun and friendly. I have read many comments from you that surprised me. Many others have told you that your comments were inappropriate and rude. I tend to stay away from that type of behaviour because it is damaging to a community.

I do know that you have done a lot for Minetest and I appreciate that. You have made many great mods and done a lot for the core and game. That will not be forgotten.

I do not have say over who can and can't be on the irc channel and as you have said before you don't care about my opinion so I do not think that I am the reason for you leaving but I could be wrong. If I am a part of the reason then sorry for not wanting the rudeness on there. Feel free to ask to join the channel. My opinion hold little weight in the world of Minetest anyway.

Wish you the best in your future endeavours.

[Amaz]

So long, and thanks for all you've done!

I hope everything goes well for you in whatever you do in the future.

[solars]

Thats sad!
I haven't used your mods, but you know, my maps are all without mods. But I loved your NY-map and your discussions in the forum.

So, I hope, you will be back in one or two years.

And I wish you the best. The real live has a wonderfull graphic engine, but a not so good game engine. No savepoints and no cheats... Make the best of it. ;)

[Napiophelios]

damn. I hate to see you go away jp.
your mods have always been learning tools for me,
you always seem to press a higher standard in how to do things.
I think that will be missed around here.

peace.

[wilkgr76]

Good luck for whatever you do in the future!

[kaeza]

[...] On the forums and GitHub, his comments are arrogant and caustic. He has, on multiple occasions, proven himself to be a person of bad character. I realize his code has helped the engine, minetest_game, and HomeDecor, but I believe his bad character is a detriment to the Minetest community.

Quoting this gem here, because it nicely summarizes the issue some of us have with the "improvised villain".

I hate "politically correct speak" as much as the next guy, but I also hate people being an asshole just for the sake of being an asshole. And it seems it's not just me (who knew?). Patience has its limits, you know.

I honestly wish you good luck in your future endeavors.

[Tmanyo]

You made some really nice mods and made very nice contributions. As far as the chat issues..... You can't really be mad at people disliking the way you speak to others. A team or community is made of people who can get along. It is not made of people who are Narcissistic and rude. So the saying goes "what goes around comes around". I am not a hater, I just speak the truth.

[Napiophelios]

...As far as the chat issues..... You can't really be mad at people disliking the way you speak to others. A team or community is made of people who can get along. It is not made of people who are Narcissistic and rude. So the saying goes "what goes around comes around". I am not a hater, I just speak the truth.

your truth amounts to nothing more than a shared opinion.
we should restrict ourselves to the facts:

There many different people working on Minetest and its mods. People who hate others can be found everywhere, thus, this IRC log does not really surprise me. Usually it's caused because people take each other too serious or misunderstand the messages...

I believe most people around here wear their heart on their sleeve;
they only except criticisms that are carefully crafted to not offend.
Which is perfectly acceptable and normal...if you are a five year old.

If you put something out there for others to review and critique,
you should have enough sense to know not everyone is going to coddle you.
jp's "harsh" words and opinions are only as offensive as you let them be,
You just cant take every thing so personal.

If you divorce yourself from your ego for a moment and reread his critiques,
they are usually spot on. Most of the time he is actually trying to encourage you to be better.

At any rate, I am not trying to defend every thing the man has said to anyone,
I know for fact he has said things that are insulting..as have most people.

I just know from my exchanges with people like Wuzzy and RBA,
any indignation I received from their replies almost always depended on my interpretation
of what was being said....not what they were actually trying to convey.

And for future reference, you can't talk shit about people when they aren't around and still declare your selves to be a nice and friendly community. His perceived "poor character" doesn't justify yours.

[Don]

I believe most people around here wear their heart on their sleeve;
they only except criticisms that are carefully crafted to not offend.
Which is perfectly acceptable and normal...if you are a five year old.

Constructive criticism is fine but when you are insulting without anything to back up what you say then it is bullying. That is what I had a problem with.
As for your five year old comment, I see minetest more as a business model then an anarchy. If people are being treated bad then they are not going to stick around for very long. If you do not care about the growth of minetest then being ok with rude people. I would prefer to have minetest a place that is friendly and inviting.

For example;
If you went into a McDonalds to order food would you be fine if the person taking your order called you an idiot?

If you divorce yourself from your ego for a moment and reread his critiques,
they are usually spot on. Most of the time he is actually trying to encourage you to be better.

As I already said he has insulted a mod without anything to back up his insult. You talk about other peoples ego but what about JP being so but hurt that he leaves the community because a few people don't like his rudeness.

And for future reference, you can't talk shit about people when they aren't around and still declare your selves to be a nice and friendly community. His perceived "poor character" doesn't justify yours.

He is the one that started this thread. I feel that I am just replying to him.(and now you)
I would guess that he has been reading these comments. I can not say for sure but why both starting a thread if you are not going to read the replies?

[wilkgr76]

Treat others as you would like to be treated.

As said celeron55 once, respect is the currency we use for paying the contributors. Today my salary takes the form of a spit in the face. I've invested a lot of my time to feed a community for free which is persistently hostile to me, so why bothering anymore ?

And how many others have YOU spit in the face?

I don't neglect I'm far from being "pleasant"

They're just doing the same thing. Being far from pleasant.

[Napiophelios]

First off, lets be clear, I have never advocated for anarchy, I just dont like snowflakes.
Its always such "tolerant" people that want to hinder free speech.

And for future reference, you can't talk shit about people when they aren't around and still declare your selves to be a nice and friendly community. His perceived "poor character" doesn't justify yours.

This was aimed at the irc thread jp linked to, not this topic.

You and a couple others are talking smack about the guy and he is not present to defend himself;
You then go on to say what a nice and friendly community it is...thats not nice and friendly.
Thats deceitful and two-faced.

jp plainly states the purpose of this topic in the OP.

Constructive criticism is fine but when you are insulting without anything to back up what you say then it is bullying. That is what I had a problem with.

I have read the two topics you and Ruben link to in the IRC chat;
and both are what I am referancing with the comments you quoted.

And yes he does back up his comments/criticism in the topic you linked to in IRC chat.
You just didnt like the way it "sounded" and how it made you "feel"

He clearly tells you he meant nothing personal.
He clearly tells you he was just trying to motivate you to code something unique.
He clearly tries to de-escalate the situation more than once.
But you did not..you took/made it personal..and it escalates from there with your own attacks.

Ferk had no problem asserting the motives behind the implementation of the mod without personal attacks;
Why didnt you?

Because you dont like jp and thought you would be justified in unloading on him
(and it probably felt good to vent huh?).

Same thing with the thread Ruben links to in the IRC chat.
If anyone else had said "Full of originality" it would be a compliment,
but jp said it and it is presumed to be an insult.
Albeit, a passive-aggressive comment..its not a blatant insult...it depends on how you take it.
He doesn't outright start insulting anyone till Ruben insults him first.
And it escalates from there.

Both situations are the same; you guys brought your baggage to a conversation
and turned the guy's statements into much more than he probably intended.
But thats okay cuz' there are more people that have the same opinion of him as you do
.....so fuck him.

postscript:
And before I answer the question, please clarify before this topic gets locked;
did I do something idiotic in front of the person at McDonalds taking my order?

[sofar]

I wish everyone just said goodbye and "let it go".

One of the hardest things to do, ever, is to let it go and have it's own life. JP finally saw that, for him, the best thing to do was to just to let it go so he can be himself again. Which is great, for him. And it could be good for minetest too, and he knows this.

But only if people remaining can also "let it go".

Go outside, smell the fresh air, talk to a friend or your family, and don't be arrogant and go accusing people who are left behind, likely already feeling guilty themselves somewhat, and drive them to self-defend with stupid SJW style attacks.

Nobody is personally responsible. Nobody wanted JP to leave. Everyone wants Minetest to be a better community. We're just clashing as to what is better, and how to do that. Friction is good, sometimes the rubber needs to burn to get grip.

Let it go.

If you want to have an adult conversation about this, PM me on IRC (not the forum). I'm a real person and everyone can talk to me, just like JP could and did.

[ExeterDad]

Let it go.

Thanks a lot man, now that song is gonna be stuck in my head for the rest of the day.

[Don]

sofar you are right. I am letting it go.

JP I wish you the best. Bye.