Psychotic wrote:you gotta be buddies with the core dev team to get anything added
I'm not sure if this is really true (I haven't begged for features), but supposing it is: I don't see the problem with it. Developing software is work, and the Minetest dev team isn't being paid; it's all volunteer. Given that, I'd hardly say it's their obligation to pander to random people's feature requests. It's their right as human beings to do or not do a request. Besides, everyone has their own opinion on what the perfect Minetest game would be; it's simply not possible to fully please everyone, and I'm sure the ones doing actual work on the game are doing it partly for themselves, because they want to play it (I know this is true when I develop games).
Minetest is free software (where "free" refers to freedom, not price). With any piece of free software, you have several possible choices if you disagree with the developers over what the software should be like. The most obvious choice, of course, is to use another program instead, which is also possible with proprietary software. However, you can also fork the program and make the changes you want in your fork, or if you are not skilled enough, you can pay someone who is skilled enough to make the changes in a fork. Anyone who agrees with you can then use your version.
It's even better with Minetest, too, because you don't even necessarily need to fork it; you might be able to just make a new "game" or mod.